She keeps her passions under a tight rein. Outwardly she may appear calm, sometimes even remote and unreachable, for the quintessential she has a serene, almost classic repose. Yet hers is one of the most conflicted signs.
Basically, she distrusts and is a little afraid of emotion. Because of this I may wonder if she is looks a bit cold. But she isn't. Her enormous capacity for loving will pour out, as from a rich treasury, once her emotions are unlocked. She particularly is often characterized as timid, evasive, reserved. This is also untrue. What she do have is self-possession, a sense of passion that is controlled by discipline.
My girl is a combination of sensuality and conservatism. As mostly other women she likes men, but she is very careful about allowing herself to become too involved with them. She fears being trapped into a long term living arrangement with the wrong man. Before she enters into a meaningful affair, she is careful to take note where the exit doors are. For her, falling in love can take a long time. She moves forward step by step, revealing the layers of her deep sensitivity, learning to trust.
She is discriminating. Rather than go out with a man who doesn’t interest her, she’ll stay home and watch a good movie. This does not mean that she thinks lovemaking is a poor substitute for a good movie. It’s just that she doesn’t mind waiting for me (the right man) to come along. I found out behind her cool facade a real woman waiting, warm and responsive. Meanwhile, her off-putting manner has served a useful purpose.
The real clue is that I know she believes in true love. When she truly loves, her inhibitions are never in control of her passions. She is not a woman I can take for granted. I must strive hard to win her, to please her, to fulfill her. If I can, I will have a partner who pays me back in lifelong dividends of love, loyalty, and happiness.
In addition to being a great relationship with her, I will probably have the kind of friendship that will last for years and years. Even if I don’t walk down the aisle together, I will share a common understanding that will transcend time and space. What better foundation could there be?
